Traditional Gulf Weddings Explained: Customs From Henna Night to the Zaffa Procession

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November 14, 2026

Shorya

Traditional Gulf weddings consist of multiple occasions within the family. This usually starts by asking the bride for her hand in marriage respectfully, then signing the contract, followed by the Henna Night and ending with the zaffa which was added to UNESCO’s heritage list in 2025. Below we have explained the importance of each tradition.

Family First: The Proposal and the signing Contract

In Gulf wedding customs, the story starts with the families.Traditionally, the groom’s family will go to the bride’s house to ask for her hand in marriage (tolba). This is done by the elders, whilst dates and Arabic coffee are served. Once agreed by both parties, the marriage contract/ nikah will be signed in front of witnesses. Many families will also still have male and female only events.

The Henna Night: Colour, Laughter and Good Wishes

This event usually takes place 1-3 days before the wedding. This is often a girls only event hosted at the bride’s family home. The bride will get her hands and feet decorated by an artist whilst music, dancing and sweet treats are enjoyed. henna night is well known in the area for being very bold with lots of negative space. Many brides will plan their Gulf henna ideas well in advance. Guests will also joke that the darker the stain, the happier the marriage!

The Zaffa Procession: A Grand Entrance

The Zaffa procession is the first event on the wedding day. The bride and groom will enter the hall with music, singing and dancing. The couple will be greeted by a clapping of hands from the guests. The Oud and hand drums play. In some areas the groom will be carried on his friend’s shoulders. After, the couple will enjoy a feast with huge plates of rice and meat, fresh dates and plenty of coffee. Couples in Qatar will often include beautiful locations and photographers. Sometimes families living abroad will mix these traditions with other cultures.

Advice for Guests at a Gulf Wedding

Wear modest, stylish and comfortable clothing. Take the coffee and sweet treats that are offered. Don’t refuse as it can look rude. Don’t take any photos without asking the hosts first. Particularly if it’s a girls only event. Be patient when arriving as times can be flexible. Most importantly, when the music starts get involved! Every clap and cheer is part of the tradition.